If my WAW ever "comes out of the fog," she could write a best seller: HOW TO DRIVE YOUR H NUTS WITH MLC.
All MLCs may be different, but my stbx was predicatble in her unpredictability, if that makes sense. I must say that I knew in my head all along what the ultimate result was going to be. It's just that my heart was not willing to accept it, until I learned to distance myself. I have since said that I am ready to be divorced, but she has yet to pull the trigger. Limbo-land stinks!