Sometimes it scares me - it's almost too easy (she was always very introspective - which I think shortened this whole process). She sent me a letter for input today (reply to her boss) then we talked about refi on a house and renting it verses selling it (the market is so flat right now) - how much equity to take out and what to do with some of it.
With no A - it's almost like the 1.5 years were just some very rocky times that we have moved past. I have talked to others - but all had A's involved - most have had a rough time of rebuilding (flashbacks to spouses OP and trust issues), but keep plugging away at their own sitch.
Anyone else who comes through this together - please post from time to time. I know I looked for success stories to keep my hopes up when this 1st started.
This has been a turning point to a better M. In 25 years will either of us will remember much about this time? Because in 50 years neither of us will remember much of anything.
