I have often thought about this. You know one of the real problems with the LD/HD dynamic is that the LD makes absolutely no sense to me (and I am a very logical thinker). The problem is that there is no logic in the way LD people behave.
Quote: the dynamics of wanting and getting—the more someone wants from their partner, the less the partner feels like giving.
No if I understand this, then the way to get more in a relationship is to want less. So if I make it clear that I do NOT want my wife, then she will give me more quality sex than I can handle. Do women literally want men that don't want them? My head is starting to hurt.
