Do I desire meaningful sex? 24/7. My desire for my wife is FAR below where it should be, but in reality I should have NO desire for my wife. I get mad at myself after the few sexual encounters we do have because I should NOT desire her, and yet the stupid sex drive draws me towards the only person I can have sex with. When your sex drive is very high and your only love langauge is physical touch, there are no other real options and still keep your marital vows.
Something that LD people also don't seem to understand is that sex is not always supposed to have deep meaning. Sex can also be used to meet the need "Recreational Companionship". Sometimes sex is to have all kinds of emtion tied to it, but at other times, you do it because it is FUN!!!! It is a way to PLAY together. You don't have to associtate it with all kinds of meaning! When you are horny, you have a completely different personality, you have a FUN personality.
