If LD people want to be desired, then why do they believe it is ok for THEM to not desire. I have suspected that most (not all) LD's actually LIKE the feeling of being desired, and yet they do NOT give this feeling back (and they usually know it). Now people on these boards more or less tell us HD folks to stop requiring the desire part, and yet don't MOST people want DESIRE, even the LD people? We are chastisied for wanting desire, but is it not human nature for virtually ALL people to want to be sexually desirous to someone else?
