Burgbud, Some of my relationship issues have been the inability to speak my mind out of fear or people pleasing or low self esteem so guess what... I spoke my mind in response to what CeMar had to say. (Practicing for real life )I was answering the question in the spirit it was asked. Sometimes you have to take things to the point of being ridiculous in order to show things in a different light.
Bear
The voyage of discovery is not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.
--Marcel Proust