Quote: Where the real frustration comes in is when there appears to be no desire to work together. Perhaps this lack of desire is due to poor communication, deep resentment, stubborness, or childishness, who knows.
The only way I don't run into anger is to "not make any advances" I can dress, dance, or not dress 'alone'; that's fine short of teasing. Just don't involve him. It hurts him. There is a medical component here. It may be in others too.
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay