Excuse me. Happened across your thread. Just wanted to deliver an quick message to you through sage words written by a friend of mine. look, listen, learn, man, for godsakes. Tick-tock goes your W's 'Should I Stay or Should I Go?' (to put it in Clashian terms) clock...
To paraphrase from my friend's, Ralph Waldo Emerson, journal:
One day my son and I were trying to get an balky calf into the barn. My son was in front pulling on the halter, while I pushed from behind. The calf had its legs splayed, and for all practical purposes was immovable. our servant girl watched with some amusement from the kitchen window while we huffed and puffed, covered in sweat. When we finally gave up in frustration, the servant girl came out, stuck her finger in the calf's mouth, and easily walked into the barn with it...
Read this again.
-Stigmata-
PS. RWE went straight to his study to record above, ending his entry with:
"I like people who can do things."
And so do I.
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The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man is the warrior views everything as a challenge; the ordinary man views everything as either a blessing or a curse.
-Yaqui shaman Don Juan-
...and that holds 2x true for nice guy wussies, DJ