All I can respond to in that sense...is from my own history when I was LD. I didn't want my H to become LD at all....I did however want him to change his approach with me. I did want him not to pester me until I gave in. Just from my own experience I can tell you that my XH would have been much more successful with me when it came to sex if he didn't appear so needy, gropy, insistent. If he would have left me alone when I said "not right now", instead of keeping at me until I gave in to shut him up. That was my perspective back then. Today I would look at it differently...but today I'm not LD either.
Seriously...if my H would have listened to me and altered his approach towards me, it would have made a big difference.
