Do LD's want their spouse to become LD?

[Burgbud]

Please help me out here. Fill in the blank:

"CeMar is so _________ that he deserves our insults and sarcasm."

What fits there: stupid? clueless? repetitive? pathetic? obstinate? irritating? <your choice here>?

I thought it was a somewhat interesting question. It was phrased in a way that made me think he expected LD spouses to respond that they *don't* want their HD spouses to lose their drive and desire. Most posts I've seen from LD spouses, though, lead me to believe that's exactly what they want...for their spouses to lower their drives and leave them alone most of the time.