Toughlover, I'm suffering from the same affliction. I don't get a thrill out of ML with someone who isn't thrilled with ML. In order to get there it's taking more and more of a conscious effort where it once just came naturally. Frankly, it's just a lot more work than it should be and doesn't feel natural. Perhaps that's the flip side of the coin. Now WE get to be the one's that need courted...oh, yeah...they don't do that.