Scheduling: A Help or a Hindrance?

[toughlover]

The schedule is becoming less relevant for some reason.

She blew me Wed morning, we ML Thurs night, I went down on her Fri night after going out (then we cuddled and fell asleep), we ML Sat morning then again Sat night after going out, then again Sunday morning.

Things seem to be getting much more natural and comfortable. We're still talking about the schedule but I don't know if it's still going to be followed or not. I guess that will depend on a few things.

Here's the deal, though: this schedule hasn't really been about the schedule or getting my needs met. What it's done (unexpectedly, I never saw this coming) was provide a context or framework for just talking about sex, communicating, and even flirting more until now it seems like that part of our life is blooming a little and getting even bigger than the schedule, if that makes sense?

IOW, what it seemed to do was get us on the same page, even if it seemed artificial at first.

Now I think the thing to do is start testing the waters by initiating with her when we're flirting and clowning around, and there's either an opportunity, or will be one later, and she how she responds.