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That does work well. Then the other comes around and you want just a bit more, get a little closer. Then you have fallen into the other's uncomfort zone. You are not healed enough yet to stand an assult so, when the assult comes, you retaliate and you are back to square one or even on the minus side of the scale. *sigh*




That's exactly how it seems to happen...if I didn't know better I'd think you'd been following me around

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You seem to have a handle on it tho,[/quote}

Some days are better than others. Much easier to say than to do that's for sure. It does seem to be working, though I don't think I'm doing as well as I could be.



You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'