However, we know that men are into it, and ladies, you need to understand why they love receiving oral sex so much. A man’s penis is not only the most sensitive part of his body, but the most vulnerable. It represents his maleness, his sense of power, his identity. Men don’t love oral sex just because it feels so good--they love it because it makes them feel so accepted, so received. It isthe only sexual act during which he can be totally passive, and you become the aggressor. You give, and he receives, experiencing a more feminine, receptive mode
It sure beats having them treat it like this then like it was a rabid dog!
There is some enjoyment from recieving oral even if the erect stage isn't there. Yet without the man moaning, or touching the woman or something there is no feedback to the woman and it becomes an act that even he won't request.
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
