Quote: It is the only sexual act during which he can be totally passive, and you become the aggressor. You give, and he receives, experiencing a more feminine, receptive mode
Totally passive?????
What, you don't rub her back, play with her hair while you get your BJ. You are missing out cemar. You could be feeling some of her smooth skin. Maybe let her feel how much you like the BJ while she is doing it. You know, a little feedback while the action is taking place. I think applause is appreciated during an ice skating event almost as much as the final numbers at the end of a performance.
Football games have cheer leaders during the game to keep people pumped up. How about a little pumping up of the main player during the so called "passive male" event
Don't take my word for it. I don't get BJ's, but I do have an imagination what the giver and the recipient might like.
Maybe let her feel how much you like the BJ while she is doing it. You know, a little feedback while the action is taking place. I think applause is appreciated during an ice skating event almost as much as the final numbers at the end of a performance. 