I am fairly sure that if Mrs. Cemar was the type to say well Thursday
to Sunday is too long for you to wait let me give you a blowjob she
and Cemar would have a much different relationship.

The fact is that hardlover & his honey came up with a plan together
and have stuck with it! congradulations to them.

And sometimes confronted with the possible (or actual) end
of the relationship both sides become motivated to do what is needed
for the relationship to survive. Sometimes It really does require that the
LD spouse is motivated to want to want sex.