I am fairly sure that if Mrs. Cemar was the type to say well Thursday to Sunday is too long for you to wait let me give you a blowjob she and Cemar would have a much different relationship.
The fact is that hardlover & his honey came up with a plan together and have stuck with it! congradulations to them.
And sometimes confronted with the possible (or actual) end of the relationship both sides become motivated to do what is needed for the relationship to survive. Sometimes It really does require that the LD spouse is motivated to want to want sex.