Scheduled sex is basically sex without desire. In the long run it normally fails, because both parties will eventually resent it.
Quote: I'm curious. Are you looking for your W to desire being with you, or being with your penis? Seriously. /quote]
Actually, in order for marriage to work, it has to be both. Beverly DeAngilis sums it up best in this quote:
Quote: However, we know that men are into it, and ladies, you need to understand why they love receiving oral sex so much. A man’s penis is not only the most sensitive part of his body, but the most vulnerable. It represents his maleness, his sense of power, his identity. Men don’t love oral sex just because it feels so good--they love it because it makes them feel so accepted, so received. It isthe only sexual act during which he can be totally passive, and you become the aggressor. You give, and he receives, experiencing a more feminine, receptive mode
It sure beats having them treat it like this then like it was a rabid dog!
