no Ellie that was not my plan.i posted on my own thread about my life. but it is very hard to come to this place and month after month see the same person swimming in self pity and refusing to get off of her ass and do something else. the posts are all about woe is me. never anything positive. it is sad. so sad.i doubt i am the only one who sees this in her posts but nobody says a word. how is this helping? where is the support, just a there there it will all be Ok and nothing changes.regarless of any one elses opinion and my mlc there comes a time when you have to say enough is enough. get some meds or see a shrink or make a change. nobody should live like that. and no my words do not show the empathy I have for this girl but there comes a time when one needs to be real and honest.
I am reposting this as there is no need to hijack barbies thread.my posts to wl are my thoughts my opinions. we are supposed to encourage one another and help each other out of the doom and gloom but when one is so deadset on refusing to budge it makes me angry. to be that age again and have so much of life ahead of you and then to watch it just waste away is heartbreaking.maybe one of these days she might just get it.
