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FF, Have you ever done something soo stupid infront of a crowd where you just want to crawl up and die. Odds are, you never wanted to talk about that day again...Right? If your wife is like me, which it sounds like she could be, she's probly trying to get on with her life. And the best way to do so is to live in the moment not in the past. When something hurts soo bad, you just want to forget it and move on.

Love is about forgiving. Forgive yourself and time will heal your pain.

As for myself, I deal with my H leaving by not talking about it to my H. I talk to my closest friend, usually after a few drinks. I tend to watch him like a hawk, just in case I get hurt again, but as time has gone on, he has proved himself to be somewhat trustworthy again. I live in todays world. I am blessed to have a second chance, and I am blessed to have a future once again with my soul mate. Out of EVERYTHING I have learnt, I will no longer take love for granted again. It should be an honor to have a partner. (my H had a QLC and left me while preg with 2nd child, as well had a PA when seperated. After 3 months, he returned. That was 1.5 years ago)

Treat your wife like gold. And be patient. I find that every now and then something will come up about the past. We speak quickly about it, then I change the topic. The last thing I want is to remember my pain, or show my pain to a man that will have to live with his actions for the rest of his life. I don't want to rub it in his face. Live and forgive...right

Hope that helps.
PLW