she could be like my H, who told me he rather not known any details if I ever did something, it was a surprise to me, miss-have-to-know-it-ALL. When he came back he was starting to ask me if I did stuff when he was away, then stopped abruptly and said "I rather now know, that way I dont' have to think about it, I dont' want to know anything". Not that anything happened, but he's that way.
...but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.
piecing after separation
