SC I think you can read my old threads as I have no desire to rehash my MLC again. I am not your Husband and so I have no idea as to what he was thinking or why he did the things he did.I did not have a PA I had a very close friend and had not even heard the term EA before I came here to these boards.you do need to get it in your head that this was not about my wife it was about me. It was about what I wanted and my wife stood in the way. I kicked and screamed throughout my MLC until I found the way home.Not every man or woman who is having an affair is in MLC. Some people just get fed up with their lives and their spouses and want to move on. Have you looked at yourself and your own contribution to the marriage? I have not read your threads.maybe it is best that you step back from the situation and just leave your husband alone to figure things out for himself. Had my wife not given me the space i needed I never would have come home.she never asked questions and she really did move on with her life.I began to feel like the LBS because it seemed that life was going on all around me and I was still stuck in my own world.
