Rocco, that sounds nice that she was concerned about you and wanted to fix something special for you to eat. Yeah, don't show that you are too hopeful, even if you are. why don't you go get some new clothes that fit? Surprise her with that! All my clothes are too big, too, so I am having to dig out my smaller jeans from years ago, I have lost 50 lbs. since july. I won't say my weight like you did, but I like being smaller. It sure has surprised my H. I really think your W sounds like she wants to nurture you, so let her. Did you tell her thanks for being there for you this past week? L