I had a great session with my DB coach Laurie and since so much is going on in my life, I need to take some baby steps. I have written it down and I need to not take her negative interactions so personal. If she swears at me, rather then walk away, I decided to do something different and that is I will tell her "I am sorry you are so upset, is there anything I can do?" That is something different that I normally would not do. You will learn something even if she still is resentful, but don't worry about it. Do things that work or feel is working and stop doing things that don't work.
In an unrelated issue, my 16 year old nephew, who has been in a wheel chair since the age of 3 due to a tumor in the stem of his brain which was removed at age 3 along with the 1st three vertebreas of his spine, is back in the hospital for the umpteenth time with his 4th bout with pnemonio. My mom just called me and doctors do not expect him to live through the day. So I will have to sign off for now but will return, maybe today, tomorrow or Monday. I really do appreciate your messages to me.