I could not have said it better, mlc. I, too wonder if Rocco is being completely honest with himself about his own part in this. Perhaps he is passive aggressive. Whatever it is, there is something missing in this puzzle.
Rocco, it is rather disloyal to discuss your W with someone who sees her every day. Set some boundaries, not everyone needs to hear about everything or to know all your business.
Be prepared to really LISTEN to the DB coach, and work on Rocco, not on your W. L