Well, I guess it is her decision since I am the one trying to Save the Marriage. Of course I don't want the marriage to be as it was before because that won't work for either one of us.
It is sad, especially for my children but I am glad that I got to tell them that Daddy is working very hard to save the marriage. My son didn't really say much because he doesn't want to talk about it. But my D now knows that I am working hard, and if we do split, she is going to wonder why her Mom didn't? Of course I suspect my W to lie and also same some true things about my behavior but will never admit her own behavior. I certainly don't want my children to blame just me and maybe not want to see me anymore. That would really destroy my well being.
I will take your advice and right things down of what questions to as the DB Coach. I will probably start the discussion by bitching a bit and how it got to this point but I better make it short, not as long as I have been posting on the site.
Right now, I am just so very tired, mentally, physically and emotionally. Thanks for your help. I really do appreciate it.
