Honestly mlc, you said it just right, Rocco be quiet, please. I am having to do all the work on my M for now, too. Most of us are. It is later that our spouses hopefully want to join in. You are not doing yourself any good getting so worked up over this, no good at all. So, please know she will not want to do anything to help for a time, so you can't force her with your anger or depression. We all know that tears, recriminations and begging do nothing except make them think we are pitiful and weak, and they don't want us then. so, please pray and take mlc's advice. L
