DYFS told me they do not inform who reported the incident so she can't find out that way.
I wish I didn't act so fast on my gut reaction and thought it out first of what the ramifications might be before I acted upon it. That is one, if not, my biggest fault. I know lying isn't helping me although my wife has lied to me several times.
Your 1st line is "I'm not saying to confess all." How can I confess it was me, but not confess all of it. What could I possibly tell her.
She doesn't trust me now at all because I hurt her so bad this past June and she is afraid that I will hurt her again. But when I said I wasn't the only one that was hurt, you have hurt me to, to the point I wanted to commit suicide. I wish she would take accountability for her actions and at least apologize to me for once but that will never happen.
She knows I am reading Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy, but she has no interest in reading them herself. And that hurts that I have to do everything. She told me this past June if I want to make the marriage work, I have to do this, that and the other. Apparently she doesn't have to make any changes. She still curses at me when she is upset and it has nothing to do with me.
If she finds out it was me, what can I possible say to explain to her in a healthy Marital supporting way that I reported it?
