I'm not saying to confess all....but has the lying helped you at all? Seems to me it just gets you in deeper.....and if she finds out you called AFTER you lie more about it, you will have ended the M by lying, not by reporting the hitting. You know, as long a there is work going on at controlling tempers and learning better parenting skills, the DFYS may well do nothing---they have bigger fish to fry. Stop freaking out. And imho, lying the way you are describing, will do more damage to your M than either shutting up, or if she finds out it was you, try explaining in a healthy Maritally supportive way, why you were the one. Let the DB coach help you with that...seriously. Stop the lies for now. I really am not moralizing--I'm warning you that it'll do more to undermine her trust in you than anything else you can do now... j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
