Well, like they said they won't tell who reported it. Can you keep a secret? Or will it weigh you down so hard that you spill it? Let her think a neighbor told them. I am sorry that you are regretting the choice you made, but you need to see it through, now. If they don't see any danger, then it still has given her something to think about. Just don't tell her it was you that reported it. You are a very reactive person, and you need to stop take a breath and wait a few more minutes before you do or say anything. Good Luck L