I read your posts and felt horrified by what you were describing, and sad for you. But then I realized that if a bunch of women wrote such things about the men they married and STAYED with all these years, we'd tell them to take some dang responsibility for THEIR lives, to GAL, and stop the blame game. You all say your wives blame you for all the problems.....gee, wanna look in the mirror a bit? I know, not all of you do that. But the biblical quote about a plank and a splinter in the eye, comes to mind.
Besides, if ALL the things you say are true, either stay for the kids where applicable and forgive, or get out. Are you reading the DB books, or wanting a place to justify your desire to walk out on the M's?
Sorry about your pain but I have to say, I started to read your notes again, and pretended you were all women, and that's when something in me decided to speak up about it. I could be way off, it's all imho. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016