Don't second guess yourself, you went with your gut, and did what you felt you had to do, so just stop worrying about it for now. Your children will be hurt, but if you tell them mommy is sick, and she needs help and can't be around them so much for awhile, they should understand better. Like you said what is done is done. You never know, this may the the catalyst for some major changes in her. Good Luck and let us know what happens. Unhappy, where are you tonight? Come here and help. L