I hope I did the right thing. Both of my therapist, two priest, my mom, and 2 friends told me I should file a police report. You are not living in a safe marriage to begin with and you won't be because your W will never change. They all said to take care of myself first and then the children.
My children are love their mother more then me and are much closer to her then they are to me. So if something happens to remove her from the house, they will be devastated.
I should have postponed what I did this evening. I have my frist therapy session with a DB Coach this Saturday and I should have run it by her first. But what is done is done. What I really should have done, but didn't think about it was ask the police officer at my job. I am an employee of the State of New Jersey. If I ran it by the officer at work, I would have asked the same questions and probably would not have filed if he told me I would have to give my name, w's name and address.
