Quote: The sad, sad truth that we don't talk about much here, and even when we do, we deny a lot of the time, is that our spouses may have had some good, hot $ex with OP and the thought (once they get past the guilt, etc) of going back to the same old mundane $ex with us is not exactly a turn on. We spent YEARS finding creative ways to turn them off for SO long.
I believe this is the truth, in my sitch anyway. So I am going to have to 180 my butt off and not necessarily for my R/M but for me and my happiness and sexual fulfillment. For so long I have been someone's Mom, it is hard to differentiate that from being a woman or wife.
