That's interesting to me because in my M we always did it 3 times a week or so (sometimes more, sometimes less) but I ended up realizing that a lot of my HD was really just plain old loneliness and since the intimacy between my W and I had been obliterated I was just desperate to make any kind of connection I could, and she was desperate to keep the distance as wide as possible, and we both ended up using sex to do that.
I ended up becoming insatiable because I was never really getting what I wanted. She ended up having an A because she wasn't getting what she really wanted (acceptance and kindness).
What I've found is that as we've begun getting much closer lately, my sex drive seems to have actually decreased in a way, but my desire to just be with her, have fun with her, talk with her, laugh and joke like we do all the time now has skyrocketed, and when we do ML, it's waaay better than ever.
Interesting that many of these dissatisfactions with our spouse's level of interest or desire isn't really that at all.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
