GH, I apologize in advance for the mini hijack...

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And from a woman's perspective I can tell you that we (at least I know I do and I suspect other women do too) crave being desired by our spouses




H and I are getting along great in all other areas, it is killing me not being desired by him.

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There were many long periods of time where neither of us felt very desired by the other. I think expressing it is very important




I have really never been the initiator in our M except for maybe the first year. How do I express my desire for H without it looking like too little, too late or that I am being desparate and needy?