Wow!!! Great repost there!!!! I've got to mull over it....
I know I've fallen into some of those categories at one time or another. Although right now I'm the crazy-desperately-trying-to-piece-spouse-riding-the-insane-roller-coaster-of-ups-and-downs.
But I do thank you and all the others posting on this thread for sharing great information. Congratulations to you on your successful piecing.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.