GH Communication really is the key to the intimacy stuff. We also had a similar thing and once we finally broke the ice and began to discuss things, we were both on the same page but neither of us knew how to share properly. Does that make sense? Both of us were afraid of rejection. Both of us felt afraid. But we both wanted the same thing. So many wasted years! I am learning to allow myself to enjoy my Husband in the bedroom and am constantly reaffirming him. I see that my words and my actions towards him seem to bring out a confidence in him that I have never seen before. It makes me feel good to see him this way.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
