Quote: Thanks GH..I will. I'm always looking for input/advice. Especially from one of the "Masters" of the board.
Um, ok
Quote: It does seem as though the rush to get it done has slowed down a bit with my W.
Again, hindsight is 20/20 but I went back and archived all my threads (just in case you want to do this, the best way I found to do it is to go to each thread, click on the link at the bottom that says "Print Thread" and then save the window that opens as an HTML file from your browser).
Anyway, as I was doing that, I read the first post of each thread and it's amazing how much time and energy I wasted worrying about OM, W's feelings, etc.
I don't know if I would have done things differently but I surely would get to work on learning to be direct/to take action MUCH sooner than I did. OT told me to do that all the time and I thought she was crazy. Why would I want to be direct and take action with a woman who didn't want me?
Turns out she didn't want me as much because she thought I didn't want her as anything else. Go figure. How did she miss all that desperation over the past year? Oh, you mean desperation, neediness and cling-on behavior don't register to a woman as passion and desire? Hmmmmmm...
