Well, out of the blue, W came to bed last night crying. Long story short, I guess OM is still calling. We didn't get into the how's and why's of it, like why she doesn't block his calls, or just doesn't listen to the message/talk to him.
She said she was just so tired of it and wanted him to go away. I told her I thought it was totally over in terms of him contacting her and she said it was, that he'd only called once lately but something he said must have set her off.
She repeatedly said she just wanted me to know how much she appreciates me for the man I am and the fact that I would never hurt her, the implication being that either he did, or was trying to do so now.
I got NO sense that this had anything to do with them still seeing each other. My sense is that he is either threatening her with telling me something or maybe even physically threatening her. She seemed clearly disgusted with even the thought of him so I don't think it's her feelings for him that is making her upset.
She didn't really want to talk much about it so I let it be. I will probably talk to her tonight so maybe there's more to post, who knows.
