Grasshopper, I read a post that you did in newcomers and it really hit home for me. One of the things that you said on this post was:
Quote: I worked VERY hard to change that because I knew inside I had all the feelings and desires to BE that man she wanted. I knew that under the boring, routine crap of how I lived my life was a man that was equally unhappy with how things were and I wanted to change, for me first but for her too.
Well, if you get a chance I would love to discuss this with you as it is a huge issue for me and my W. Let me know how to get ahold of you if you would be willing to take the time to share with me how ya'll overcame this obstacle. I am just looking for some advice on this particular topic and have read many of your posts so I would value your input.
