I saw a post of yours on another thread earlier today. You remind me of myself, but I'm the wife. I wondered if there is any chance you could give me some advice, or direct me to where I could find some good tips on how to handle the following... H's A was just revealed Sat, he's not been home for about a month, he has called me today and wants me to call him back about "how we're gonna work stuff out" (his words, but felt they implied separating everything between us).
I haven't been very successful at getting the advice I felt I needed, but maybe I'm asking too much. Since I've been through this stuff before, I know just how important this "point in time" is. I want to set myself up the best I can, so that this might be a turning point, rather than drag things out longer than needed.
I have been guilty of anger, but I've also been betrayed alot. I don't know the right thing to say to him right now, if/when I call him back. We never properly recovered when we got back together 2 yrs ago. I've worked on myself, but not enough. My DBing was weak until the last few weeks, but I started on it long ago. I feel much better with my anger, even at this stage of the sitch. Just thought I'd fill in a few of the blanks.
Any tips or advice would be so helpful and much appreciated. If you want to check out my thread it is here... forever21's 2nd thread Today's post at 5:38pm EST is about the msg I got today.
Sorry to hijack. Thank you. f21
Me: 37 M: 14 yrs Separated 10/06; Filed for D 12/07 Life is good.
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I wondered if there is any chance you could give me some advice, or direct me to where I could find some good tips on how to handle the following... H's A was just revealed Sat, he's not been home for about a month, he has called me today and wants me to call him back about "how we're gonna work stuff out" (his words, but felt they implied separating everything between us).
