It is so wonderful to stop by your thread and to read what wonderful things are going on in your M. I am so, so happy for you. And yes, a bit envious! Which makes your postings all the more important. When we LBS are impatient, we need more than anything the sitches that remind us that there is hope and a magical inspiring R available down the road somewhere. I realize it may not happen for everyone, but you GH have continually done the work and looked hard at yourself and have been willing to grow. That's what creates the possibility for the magic to occur and I am happier for you than I can say, that your W got it, and that you both are where you are now.
As a woman, I particularly long for the day when my H would want and desire me and demonstrate it to this degree. I can imagine how freeing this must be for your W, to have you more in charge than you were before. There is something raucous than can come out of a woman like me in that safety net of demonstrated desire, and I am so pleased that you're at that party!
Thinking of you with admiration and affection, as always
PositivelyListening ************************************** When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller