Hey, look, I'm gonna jump on the bandwagon and thank you, once again GH, for boiling it down for me and so many others. I'm really happy for you and I always believed that you would get to this point for a variety of reasons, but chief among them was your willingness to adapt and make the changes in "you" rather than trying to adapte and make changes to your wife. Very good stuff....

Your post really hit me today, especially, because I've been struggling with some of those tough issues....but the point is, you are absolutely dead right on. I almost started to lose sight of this in the last few weeks....thank you.

Keep up the good work!


"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu