Quote: from the perspective of the WAS. All of a sudden, for the WAS, forsaking doesn't seem so bad when you feel unloved, un-cherished and not honored in the least, let a lone respected.
THIS is how the whole thing started, at least in my sitch. The LBS just needs to get past the victim mode of being "cheated" on and take a long hard look at themselves, it is then that they might see that they were a "WAS" first.