Hey GH,
Good for you!!!!!
Now to keep the momentum going. I too have had intimacy issues and am learning to overcome them and take risks. I know that jobs, kids and daily life can leave you drained but I am making it a personal goal to not let more than 2 weeks go by before we ML again.

Since I tried reading Passionate Marriage and it was over my head I picked up The Passion Prescription by Dr. Laura Berman. I am learning all kinds of things about me and how I relate to my H in and out of the bedroom.

I will never become complacent in my M again. It is definitely a work in process.