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it's not usually the affair that ends the marriage, it's the LBS's ability to control the anger long enough to move forward that does.




you have helped me lots today, I fell off the DB wagon and fell into a pit last night, have changed my name since i'm certain my H has seen my post about his diary (he's asked me for it "the little black book") I posted on BI's thread and she told me to come over here, I see why now, I really screwed up.


...but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. piecing after separation