Just an observation, for what it is worth. It seems like anytime anyone suggests to you problems that your W might have, you come back with a post stating that things aren't THAT bad, and she doesn't REALLY have a problem, and that YOU are probably in the wrong for whatever situation you have just posted about.
Perhaps you don't REALLY hold her accountable for HER part in this.
Just an observation from little ole me who follows your sitch.
Not trying to hurt ya, just pointing out to you that I can always guess what your response is gonna be to someone who points out something about your W that may appear less than flattering.
Also, FWIW, I also let my DH do WAAAAAYYYY too much around the house when I was having my anxiety, ocd issues. And guess what, he went with it for a very, very long time. Then he cracked and became a walk-away. Talk about an eye-opener.
