Quote: The reason I am pressing this attachment idea is that I truly think it can help others on this board. It can be like an enhancer, a turbo boost to other methods. Since we are in many ways dealing with the unknown, anything and everything that can tilt the odds in favor of reconciliation should be used.
This attitude, I think, is where you rub people wrong. You press other people to adopt what you find to be the most worthy path... and it may in fact be just that. However, you have to let people find their own way, respect that we all have intelligence, we all have an ability to discern for ourselves, a course of action the is best suited for ourselves.
This method, for YOU, is a turbo boost. Seems to me The Passion Trap served as a turbo boost for Fran.
I feel like you want to shove this method down my throat, get me to see it as you do, claim it to be, by far, the best method found so far. That attitude alone prompts me to rebel, for I find it personally insulting.
I resist, however, because I don't think you mean to insult me, nor anyone else here. You are excited for the understanding and you want to share it. I understand that. In so doing, however, it does not initially FEEL as though you are respecting me as an individual because you continue to PRESS me to accept this method as the preferred course of action.
Quite hoenstly, what you have said here is really no different than what I hear others who are experiencing progress are saying... it's just all being said in a slightly different way.
Give people some room to be themselves, Cobra. And then when we all get to Rome, no matter how we got there, we can appreciate the differences we all experienced along the way... we'll have something to talk about... not necessarily be carbon copies of one another.
