If she leaves you, (or when she threatens) it will (can) cause an emotional loss. Thats not her problem to fix, anymore then your grief is the responsibility of a loved one who dies, nor necessarily a breach of your boundary. It just hurts, and means your human.
I want to add --- how you deal with that hurt, and demonstrate control over your emotional state, and specifically her control over it will either kill her attraction or allow it to resume.
