Cobra, you seem very interested in this exercise, as am I, for I always thought the simplistic, you are too sensitive, you are too cold, you are too stoic...sayings were too general.

Here is further information on Fraley's efforts and graphs, try refresh if the macromedia grafts dont run.

OH and THANK YOU FOR LOCATING THESE LINKS TO BEGIN WITH! I got to these by backing up on your link to the "test" trying to learn more and taking related links from there.

Quote:

The graph on the left illustrates Person A's attachment-related anxiety and avoidance with respect to four relationship domains: mom, dad, partner, and best friend. Because the ratings are made once a day over a 30-day period, the graph portrays the trajectory of a person's attachment style in that two-dimensional space over the 30-day period. For this particular individual, there is a bit of change over time. Most notably, however, the person has very different ways of relating to his best friend (with whom he is relatively secure--low in anxiety and avoidance) than he does with his parents. For example, the blue points, which represent his attachment to his mother, tend toward the extreme opposite end of the two-dimensional space. His attachment to his father is similar, but more extremely insecure and more stable




Which suggests you can attach differently to different people/people types in your life.

http://www.psych.uiuc.edu/~rcfraley/research.htm





Pity me that the heart is slow to learn What the swift mind beholds at every turn. Edna St. Vincent Millay